Episode 4 :: Being the Black Sheep & Finding Your Tribe
For everyone who has ever felt like the "odd one out" or struggled to find their people - this episode is your roadmap home. Jac & Jess share deeply personal stories about growing up different, navigating spiritual gifts in isolation, and ultimately finding authentic soul family connections.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why feeling like a black sheep is part of the spiritual path - Understanding the necessary separation that leads to true connection & ascension
The dimensional journey of awakening - How moving from 3D to 4D consciousness creates temporary loneliness before 5D unity
Personal stories of spiritual isolation - From seeing spirits as children to feeling disconnected in The Catholic Church, hear the real experiences of growing up gifted
The difference between healthy dependence and codependency - How to need people without losing yourself in relationships
The complete "How to Find Your Tribe" protocol - Jac & Jess's channeled 5-step process for attracting soul-aligned friendships
Working with your heart chakra as a friendship magnet - Practical techniques for making your heart the brightest beacon for attracting the right people
Why your trauma patterns block love - How rejection patterns and self-worth issues literally repel the people meant for you
The importance of values alignment - How to identify your core values and find people who share or are working toward them
Being authentically yourself - Why presenting your true self (not your potential self) creates lasting connections
Union consciousness and boundaries - Balancing interconnectedness with healthy energetic & emotional boundaries
Guided meditation: Activating your amazingness - A powerful heart chakra activation to magnetize soul family connections
Key Topics Covered:
Growing up Catholic with spiritual gifts
The loneliness of spiritual awakening
Moving through 3D, 4D, and 5D consciousness
Spiritual empathy, absorption, and boundaries
The healing process from isolation to connection
Self-accountability in relationships
Creating safe energetic containers for others
The role of synchronicity in finding your people
Perfect for:
Anyone who has felt like the family or community "black sheep"
Spiritual seekers struggling to find like-minded friends
Empaths who absorb others' emotions and need boundary work
People transitioning out of religious backgrounds into spirituality
Those ready to attract authentic, soul-aligned relationships
Anyone feeling lonely on their spiritual journey
This episode offers both validation for the isolation many spiritual seekers experience and practical, actionable steps for creating the connections your soul craves. The vulnerability Jac & Jess share about their own journeys from spiritual outcasts to finding deep soul friendship demonstrates that authentic connection is not only possible but inevitable when you do the inner work.
Their channeled 5-step protocol provides a clear roadmap that moves beyond wishful thinking into practical soul magnetism. This isn't about changing yourself to fit in - it's about becoming so authentically you that your people can't help but find you.
About Your Hosts:
Jac Kalea Patio, HHP is a Holistic Health Practitioner, Light Language Sound Practitioner, and direct channel to Divine Source. Known as a Light Warrior and Healer for Humanity & Gaia, Jac helps people clear trauma, activate their spiritual gifts, and align with their soul's mission through sacred healing modalities. | Jac's Website: Golden Light Healings
Jess Marie, CVC, CAHC, INHC, E-RYT is a Vedic Counselor and Self Work Alchemist with over 10 years of study in The Vedas, consciousness, and integrative health. She specializes in trauma-informed counseling and helps people transmute their challenges into strengths through ancient Vedic wisdom. | Jess’ Website: the meraki method
