Episode 12 :: FAQ - Pre-Destined Soul Events, Trauma, & Love as Your Coach
Your soul is a genius. Before you were born, it created a grand master plan with divine councils - mapping out predestined events, choosing your family, and selecting exactly which lessons you'd need to learn love in a world where hate exists. This FAQ episode reveals the profound intelligence behind your life's most challenging moments and why trauma isn't random - it's your soul's awakener.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Predestined soul flags explained - The golden moments your soul marked as "must happen" before incarnation
Why your soul chose your parents - Understanding genetic patterns as doorways to specific lessons
Trauma as the ultimate awakener - How stark pain forces you to seek truth beyond surface reality
Soul healing vs. emotional healing - Clearing wounds carried across multiple lifetimes
Love as your internal coach - Practical methods for using love to transform every lower vibration
The coffee date with love - What love would actually tell you about rejection and relationships
Vibrational resilience building - Creating stability at higher frequencies through routine and heart connection
Maintaining vibration around others - Why discomfort reveals what's unhealed in you, not them
Key Concepts Clarified:
Your soul works with higher councils to create an outline before birth - it's not random
Predestined events feel incredibly easy when they're meant to happen (like Jess finding Prince)
The soul chooses challenging experiences because it knows they'll force expansion and seeking
Soul wounds create scars that block your heart chakra across multiple lifetimes
Love never actually asks much of you - it just wants to be with you and transform you
Someone who truly loves you cannot reject you - if you feel rejected, love says "let them go"
Vibrational discomfort shows where you're not stable, not that the other person is wrong
Your heart's light knows exactly which "floor" you can stabilize at right now
Perfect for:
Anyone wondering why certain painful events keep happening in their life
People struggling to understand the purpose behind their trauma
Those who feel rejected in relationships and need love's perspective
Spiritual seekers wanting to understand their soul's pre-birth planning
Anyone trying to maintain high vibration around lower vibrational people
People ready to use love as an active force for transformation rather than just a feeling
Those seeking to build true vibrational resilience through daily practice
Jac & Jess bring a new level of vulnerability to this episode, sharing personal connections to loss & grief, and the uncomfortable truth that your soul often chooses your hardest experiences. The conversation demystifies why "bad things happen to good people" - not through platitudes, but through understanding the soul's genius-level planning.
The heart-centered meditation guides you into your own heart's flame to discover your current vibrational capacity and build resilience from your internal love rather than external circumstances. This practice teaches you to let your heart be the coach that walks with you through every moment of life.
About Your Hosts:
Jac Kalea Patio, HHP is a Holistic Health Practitioner, Light Language Sound Practitioner, and direct channel to Divine Source. Known as a Light Warrior and Healer for Humanity & Gaia, Jac helps people clear trauma, activate their spiritual gifts, and align with their soul's mission through sacred healing modalities. | Jac's Website: Golden Light Healings
Jess Marie, CVC, CAHC, INHC, E-RYT is a Vedic Counselor and Self Work Alchemist with over 10 years of study in The Vedas, consciousness, and integrative health. She specializes in trauma-informed counseling and helps people transmute their challenges into strengths through ancient Vedic wisdom. | Jess’ Website: the meraki method
